Everything I Own: 10KG of Carry-On

There's a storage locker in Cary, North Carolina with some baby photos in it. That's about it.

Everything else fits in two bags: a Rimowa Essential Lite roller and a Tom Bihn Synik 22 backpack. They slide into an overhead bin. We have never checked a bag by choice in eleven years.

This is not a packing list. It's an inventory.

Lisa figured it out a few years in. If you have a credit card, you have everything you need. Not eventually. Not after some logistical detour. Right now, within walking distance, in any city we've ever been to.

That realization is the load-bearing wall of how we travel.

Eight pairs of Uniqlo Airism boxer briefs. Three pairs of Darn Tough boot-height wool socks in black. Five pairs of Darn Tough no-show socks in white. Those white socks are the only white anything I own. Everything else is black—not as a style statement, though it helps, but because nothing mismatches and nothing shows wear.

Two pairs of Outlier shorts, the longer cut. Two pairs of Outlier jeans. Eight Lululemon Evolution Polos, all synthetic, all lightweight. One Montbell Plasma 1000 Down Jacket—the lightest, most compressible down jacket I've found, made in Japan, engineered for exactly this kind of life. One Marmot Precip Eco rain jacket. One wool beanie. One bucket hat. One pair of HOKA running shoes. One pair of Havaianas.

Prescription glasses. Prescription sunglasses.

A zip-lock liquids bag with toiletries. A Sea to Summit kit with the things you hope you don't need: Band-Aids, dental floss, replacement blades for the Panasonic Palm razor—a USB-charging device smaller than a deck of cards. SoftSole insoles, because we put serious miles on our shoes and these buy an extra month or two before replacement.

And every January when we leave the US: four prescription medications and four vitamins totaling more than 2,400 pills. They fill most of one side of the suitcase. This is the real constraint. Everything else in the bag is organized around the medications.

The backpack holds the MacBook Air, the iPhone, AirPods, and every cord we carry—mostly six inches, a couple at a meter, nothing longer. No backups of anything. One exception: a three-foot Japanese extension cord, unpolarized, more universally useful than anything sold in a US hardware store.

Tom Bihn makes bags by hand in Seattle. They cost about three hundred dollars. People who don't own one think that's absurd. People who own one stop thinking about their backpack entirely, which is exactly the point.

The wallet is a Tumi carbon fiber model, larger than standard because it holds two US passports each—a regular and a second passport for complicated-visa situations—yellow fever vaccination cards, an international driver's license, health insurance cards, transit passes from a rotating cast of cities, a Priority Pass, and more credit cards than is strictly dignified. We are serious about points.

Emergency nuts. Face masks. Zeiss binoculars—compact, real optics, used sparingly but enough to justify the space.

There's a belief, widely held and almost entirely wrong, that you can only get things at home.

My glasses prescription hasn't changed in years. What changes is the anti-reflective coating, which eventually starts peeling and makes the lenses impossible to see through. When that happens—in Lisbon, in Bangkok, wherever we are—we walk to an optician and get new glasses. This is not a crisis. It's a Tuesday.

In 2024 we spent about four weeks moving from India to Bhutan to Norway. Two of those countries require real cold-weather gear. We had none. Before leaving India we walked into a Decathlon—locations across Asia, functional base layers for nine dollars—bought what we needed, wore it through Bhutan and twelve days on a Norwegian ferry, and donated everything in Bergen before we got off the boat.

Problem stated. Problem solved. No advance planning required.

We have also had our bags lost for twenty-three days. Austrian Airlines. They knew roughly where the bags were the entire time and simply couldn't deliver them. This experience concentrates the mind on what you actually need. The answer is: not much.

None of this is zero-impact. We fly constantly, which means the carbon math is already complicated regardless of what's in the overhead bin. Buying cheap gear in India and donating it in Norway isn't a clean transaction. Neither is anything else about how we live.

Our readers are not strangers to airports. We're all doing the math imperfectly. The question is whether you're also carrying anxiety along with the weight—and whether that's making any of it better.

The Rimowa is expensive and thin-walled and occasionally alarming when airlines handle it roughly. The Montbell Plasma 1000 compresses to the size of a softball. The Outlier pants have survived more countries than most people visit in a lifetime. The Tom Bihn is precious to its owners in a way that's hard to explain until you own one.

None of it matters as much as understanding that the credit card in your wallet is an infinite supply chain. Buy the sweatshirt when you're cold. Get the glasses made when you can't see. Let go of the rest.

The locker in Cary holds the baby photos. Everything else either fits in the overhead bin or it doesn't come.